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The Craziest Thing About Working in Construction?

Monday, September 01, 2025

H.E.R. Haven Blog/The Craziest Thing About Working in Construction?

When most people think about construction, they picture steel beams rising, cranes swinging, or million-dollar schedules ticking down to the wire.

But for those of us actually on-site, there’s another reality no one talks about.

The bathroom situation.

Yep, I said it—the porta-potties.

It sounds funny until you’re out there for 10–12 hours a day with nowhere else to go.  And for women? That “simple” situation gets a whole lot more complicated.

A Reality Outsiders Would Never Imagine

You can run a multi-million-dollar project, coordinate crews, and manage endless moving parts…
and still find yourself stuck navigating something as basic as a bathroom break in a space designed for everyone but you.

It’s a quiet truth of construction life. Outsiders rarely consider it, but every woman who’s worked a site knows it well.

It’s more than just uncomfortable—it’s symbolic of what it feels like to be in a male-dominated environment.
You adapt. You adjust. You make it work, even when the setup wasn’t made with you in mind.

The Hidden Lesson Behind the Porta-Potties

Here’s the deeper truth: construction isn’t just about building structures.
For women, it’s about constantly building strategies—ways to navigate spaces that weren’t designed for us.

The porta-potty is just one example. But the message is everywhere:

You’re expected to fit in—even if the setup doesn’t fit you.

You’re asked to compromise—even when it impacts your basic comfort.

You’re left to figure it out—because no one thought about your needs to begin with.

And still—you rise. You push through. You prove, again and again, that you can thrive in an environment that wasn’t built with you in mind.

Final Thoughts

The porta-potty story might sound like a small thing, maybe even something to laugh about. But it represents a bigger truth about being a woman in construction: you’re often forced to adjust in ways others don’t see.

Yet in every challenge—whether it’s equipment that doesn’t fit, facilities that don’t serve you, or colleagues who underestimate you—you show resilience.
You adapt not because you should have to, but because you’re determined to keep moving forward anyway.

So yes, the porta-potties are part of the story. But the bigger story?
​It’s about women proving every day that even when the industry isn’t built for us—we’re still here, building it.

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Hi, I'm Martina O'Neal

Creator of H.E.R. Haven Blog 

I help women in male-dominated workplaces overcome bullying, beat stress and anxiety, and go from just surviving the workday to truly thriving from 9 to 5.

I worked as a Construction Project Manager in Corporate America for more than 20 years, so I know all too well the fear of participating in weekly meetings and dealing with a difficult boss.

​It's my goal empower and guide women to thriving in any workplace even in a room full of men.

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